Managing Stalking Issues

Emotions

Avoiding Personal Danger

Stalkers claim they love the person they have been harassing, but it has little or nothing to do with being emotionally involved with someone else. For those who have been victims of this personality type, the danger is real. There are a few basic things every person being stalked should do, and they are all about avoiding personal danger. While some stalkers can be helped, many of them are out of control and a danger to their victim and society. They believe they have no reasons to control their own behaviour, so they are willing to do whatever their broken mind believes is necessary to keep a relationship active.

It might seem ridiculous to call local authorities and tell them a former partner has been exhibiting odd behaviour, but this is one of the best ways a person can protect themselves. Many agencies today have a firm understanding of this type of behaviour, and they can have some good suggestions on how to proceed. If nothing else, making them aware of the situation will give them a reason to keep a special lookout on a person being harassed.

It could be embarrassing to tell friends and family that a former partner refuses to end the relationship, but it is another good defensive weapon. Stalkers often call friends and relatives of their victims to get vital information to help in their cause. They may state the breakup was nothing more than a small issue in the relationship, and they can often convince others of their good intentions. Shutting them out of this information source as soon as their behaviour is recognised will help curb their ability to keep track of their victim.

Neighbours can be an excellent resource when it comes to being stalked. They already live in the area around the victim, and they may have noticed odd occurrences that could be dangerous. Identifying the problem for them and providing a clear copy of a photograph of the stalker could give them an opportunity to identify the person and call authorities before the situation becomes deadly.